tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2236461450774245955.post8572431289057454464..comments2023-05-17T09:06:27.535-07:00Comments on The Childless by Choice Project: Old but Not AloneLaura S. Scotthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11503359529542988850noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2236461450774245955.post-39301516052158467482009-10-29T16:15:10.351-07:002009-10-29T16:15:10.351-07:00Cave-Woman--I like the communal living/green model...Cave-Woman--I like the communal living/green model too. I also think it's also very important to have a will and living will that a assigns a trusted health-care proxy. This person doesn't have to a blood relative.<br />I wish there were more resources I could recommend. If anyone knows of a resource of this type, please comment here and give us a suggestion or link.Laura S. Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11503359529542988850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2236461450774245955.post-85673455966889071492009-10-25T11:50:30.546-07:002009-10-25T11:50:30.546-07:00Thanks for the info, because after having to care ...Thanks for the info, because after having to care for my aging, sick mother, I want to make sure I never do that to anyone else. This is one area where I believe parent(s) with children can be selfish, if we want to spread the selfish label around fairly. Assuming your kids will care for you in your later years is an awful thing to do to them. Even if I had kids, I'd still plan to take care of myself/husband in my golden years.Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08845430638311120276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2236461450774245955.post-81852957335455132102009-10-05T13:38:30.909-07:002009-10-05T13:38:30.909-07:00Hi!
I found your blog looking for information on ...Hi!<br /><br />I found your blog looking for information on how to plan health care for aging, child-free couples. <br /><br />Honestly, the green housing idea is the only one I've seen on the internet that was remotely helpful.<br /><br />Are you aware of any book/articles/ other resources that I should look at to plan our health care options?<br /><br />My husband and I are very happy with our child-free choice---but recently having lost my mother due to a prolonged illness--it occurs to me how awful her last months would have been if family had not been involved. Her nursing home was great---but the additional care of family made a big difference in her day in/day-out comfort because we knew how to interpret her needs.<br /><br />Truth be told, I'm a little scared to find out what the future would hold for myself aging, without family to rely on. <br /><br />Any resources you can think of would be helpful.<br /><br />Thank you!Cave-Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06888781509791113960noreply@blogger.com